This is more of a friday rant. About people. And crap. And people crapping on each other.
Its my theory that negativity is an actual force. An energy that travels from person to person like electricity on a wire. When a person hold feelings of revenge, anger, jealousy, or frustration they need to find a way to release it. Or all that negativity will cause an implosion, like a fart that that has been repressed for way too long. Sorry for the lovely metaphor, but you get the picture.
So I work in a lovely office. Usually. But perhaps while I was on maternity leave someone seriously crapped on their co-worker. Well, that mighty stinking shit has spread. And you can feel it when you walk in the door. I've been absence for eight weeks, so why do I feel outright hostility? I asked a cubicle dweller on tuesday how she was doing. With a sneer she replied "BUSY" and turned without another word and walked away. It only got worse from there-wednesday I was snapped at, and despite my numerous apologies and pleas to assist this person with whatever intolerable burden she may have, haven't received a response. But due to my theory of negativity, I refuse to pass on the nasty vibe.
Hence, the implosion.
I can directly link the infant carseat base and its propulsion across my driveway (didn't know I had that kind of strength) thursday morning to the obvious decline in morale at work. Or in other words, with no better outlet for my hurt feelings, I took out my frustration on inanimate objects. And threw things.
I also have positive outlets for my frustration. Like knitting.
And of course, the little guy:
5 comments:
He is precious! I am sorry that work sucks right now -- you are so right about your theory of negativity -- it *does* spread like a virus.
Sorry to hear that people at work are crabby lately :o(
That face! What a cutie..
Thank heavens you have such a safe haven at home. but your right negative people can bring you down
Yep, nothin' spreads faster than a bad attitude. If you are newly back from a maternity leave though, it could be Mom hate… I'm not kidding… truly wish I were. You'd think the workplace would have changed by now but in many cases… sadly not. Sorry, more negativity. Stay positive! Your baby is adorable!!
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